Monday, February 27, 2012

Every once in a while I will think of a rule I would have if I ever had children. I wrote down all the ones I could remember last night and this is what I've got so far....

For the child(ren)
  • No allowances
  • No sleepovers
  • Piano/instrument lessons for at least 5 years
  • No snacking between mealtimes
  • Must pick up all their things before each meal
  • No television/movies during the day
  • No PG-13 movies until they're at least 13 years old
  • No watching certain movies until they've read the books (LotR, Narnia, Jane Austen, etc...)
  • No bragging or self praise
  • They must personally greet every new kid in their class/group
For Myself (every time I added one for the kids I made myself add one for me :D)
  • Be consistent - enforce rules
  • Keep children's strengths/weaknesses in mind when making them do something
  • Push them out of their comfort zone - start early - Make them do some of the activities that they don't want to do
  • Always try to give positive feedback with constructive criticism
  •  Never lie to them, even if it's a "white lie"
  • Always be an example of what I'm trying to teach them
  • Apply their Bible lessons to their lives - help them to live it
  • Pay attention to their feelings and don't disregard any without first putting myself in their shoes
  • Be sure to spend time with them regularly, even when I don't feel like it
  • Always speak kindly and respectfully about my parents, siblings, and relatives
  • Don't give in to begging or whining. If they want something then they must persuade me with reasoning
  • Don't let them go around like ragamuffins
What say you? Be they reasonable or no?

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